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Great Grandmother: Minnie Winifred BAILEY Née ROUSE (1900 - 1976)



Minnie's childhood

My great grandmother Minnie's birth was registered in the last quarter of 1900 in the district of Maidstone in Kent.  Her father was Herbert Charles Rouse, a 22 year old Maidstone born gas-fitter and 21 year old Ada Taylor, the daughter of an Engine Fitter born in the nearby New Brompton.  Minnie's parent's had married the year before she was born in Maidstone, after living together unmarried (for the time scandalous!)

On 31st March 1901, when the national census took place Minnie and her parents were living in Maidstone.  Her father Herbert was listed as a gas works labourer while other mother Ada fascinatingly worked in an Eiffel Tower Factory.

Married Life And Parenthood

On the 13th September 1924 Minnie, aged 24, married 41 year old Minnie in the church of St. Marks in New Brompton, Kent.  Minnie had been living at 19 Cross Street in the neighboring town of Chatham, and her father had become a gas fitter.  Her husband James had been living at 5 Jeffrey Street, Gillingham, which would go on to be there family home for several years, and worked as a clerk and draughtsman.  Ironically, with James working in his "wordy" profession his new wife could not write and had to sign her mark with an X12.

At the time of their marriage Minnie was pregnant and on the 11th April 1925, two days shy of their seven month wedding anniversary, Minnie and James' first child was born at 5 Jeffery Street, Gillingham.  At the time of birth James was working as a draughtsman for the War Department.

On the 4th November 1926 Minnie gave birth for a second time in the same family home as their first child.  James was still working for the War Department but as a civilian clerk.

At some point the family move to an extension on 37 Third Avenue still in Gillingham, where Minnie's third child was born on 17th November 1928.  James was still working as a civilian clerk for the War Department.

Each summer during the 1920s a fair took place in Gillingham Park as a fundraiser for St. Bartholomew's Hospital.  The traditional highlight was a demonstration of firefighting and rescue by the Gillingham Fire Brigade.  On the 11th July 1929, in what would later be known as the Gillingham Fair Fire Disaster the demonstration went fatally wrong resulting in 15 fatalities.  The demonstration involved a three story wood and canvas mock house with simulated fire using smoke and flares.  After demonstrating a rescue the firefighters would then light the house to demonstrate firefighting skills. 

This year six men and nine boys from local naval cadet and sea cadet groups aged 10 to 14 entered the building.  For reasons still unknown the real fire was ignited prematurely  trapping all occupants inside the burning structure.  The firefighters recognised the threat immediately but most of the audience were only made aware when two boys, with clothes on fire, jumped to their deaths from the upper floors.  The fire was put out quickly but the heat of the blaze led to 13 dying in the blaze, and the remaining 2 survivors dying in hospital.  The funeral for the disaster was held on the 17th July, 6 days later.

On the 5th of January 1931 Minnie and James' fourth child was born.  They were still living at the extension on 37 Third Avenue in Gillingham.  James at this point was still working for the War Department, as a correspondence clerk.

It All Falls Apart

At some point Minnie's family moved to a house called Great Hermitage at Higham and on the 5th November 1932 her fifth child was born.  At the time James had moved jobs and was working as an electrical draughtsman.  The registration of the birth was late, being registered on the 24th February the following year.

At some point in 1936 Minnie's sixth child was born, however the birth appears never to have been registered.  During this period the family moved from Higham to Cambridge Terrace in Chatham, the neighboring town to Gillingham where they had spent most of their married lives.

The family appear to be seriously struggling and on the 25th November 1937 the Nottingham Evening Standard reported that Minnie and James had been jailed for a month after having their case heard at Chatham Police Station.  They were charged with neglect of their five children and the children were removed by magistrates order.

The children were described as "verminous and grimed with dirt from head to foot".  Her 5 year old child was "From his chest to the sole of his feet it would have been impossible to place a shilling without touching sores on his body".  Her 10 year old child "had been sleeping in a baby's cot, the bed of which had rotted through, so that he was lying on the bare board.  The bedroom and bedding were in a filthy condition."

"For the defence, Mr. Henry Flint urged that Bailey and his wife belonged to the "submerged strata of these islands."  The parents had done what they could to look after their children."  The newspaper also reported that Minnie was now going blind and was expecting another child.  No child was born suggesting either the newspaper report was incorrect or that Minnie has a miscarriage.

The day before her husband's 55th birthday, on 28th April 1937, when Minnie was 37, her youngest child died aged 22 months at 42 Magpie Hall Road, Chatham.  The cause of death was Tuberculosis and Meningitis.  Unlike the birth which was never registered the death was registered Minnie registered the death the following day.

Infant mortality in the 1930s was high, with around one in twenty children dying of infectious diseases before their first birthday.  Poverty, poor diet and bad living conditions, such as those of the Bailey family at the time, lay at the root of much childhood illness.  Doctor Harold Everley Jones, an early pediatrician that qualified in 1934 described houses of the period when he recalled:

            "I stood in a house to which I was called and was amazed to see the wallpaper     moving due to the bugs underneath. Many of these houses were little more better than hovels."

It was only in 1939 that the first anti-bacterial drugs became available, and 1947 was a specific drug to tackle TB was discovered.

At time of her child's death Minnie and her family were living at Cambridge Terrace, Chatham.  Unable to find work as a clerk or draughtsman her husband James turned to working as a labourer.

Get Life Back Together

At some point Minnie's family moved to 84 Layfield Road, Gillingham, where on the 9th July 1943, when Minnie was 43, her seventh and last child was born.  At the time of birth her husband James had the interesting occupation of Rescue Worker Civil Defence (Engineering Commercial Traveller). 

In 1945 additional structures were added to the World War I Naval War Memorial on the Great Lines to honour those who died in WWII.

In the third quarter of 1946, when James was 64 his third child was married

On the 4th December 1951 saw the Gillingham bus disaster strike.  The street was incredibly poor and weather was reported as dark and foggy.  A company of fifty-two members of the Royal Marine Volunteer Cadet Corps were marching in dark blue battledress and berets along the side of the road from Melville Royal Marine Barracks to the Royal Naval Barracks in Chatham.

While walking through a darker patch due to a broken street light, a double-decker bus ploughed into the back of the marching company.  The company consisted of children between the age of ten and thirteen.  Twenty-four of the cadets were killed and another eighteen injured.  At the time this was the highest loss of life in any road accident in British history.

A military funeral was held at Rochester Cathedral.  Thousands of local people stood outside the cathedral and lines the streets for the procession to Gillingham cemetery.  Royal Marines acted as pall bearers and guarded the coffins.  The driver was charged with dangerous driving with a recommendation of leniency from the jury.  He was fined and banned from driving for three years.

On 27th November 1954 Minnie's second eldest child, living at James' home in still in 84 Layfield Road, married.  Her husband James, then aged 72, was working as a Gate Keeper at an engineering factory.

On the 11th December 1958 Minnie's husband James had died at 23 Knight Avenue, Gillingham in Kent aged 76.  His cause of death was Broncho Pneumonia and Bronchitis.  His profession on the death certificate was retired timekeeper Engineering Works.  The informant to the death was one of his children living nearby14.

Minnie's death was registered in the last quarter of 1976 in Maidstone district in Kent.  She would have been 76 years old.

1. See James Jr.'s birth certificate registered in the ???? quarter of ????
2. See James Sr.'s birth certificate registered in the first quarter of 1851
3. See 1881 census (full reference details TBC)
4. See Harry's birth certificate registered in the ???? quarter of ????
5. See 1891 census (full reference details TBC)
6. See James Sr.'s death register registered in the last quarter of 1892
7. See 1901 census (full reference details TBC)
8. See 1911 census (full reference details TBC)
9. See Eleanor's death certificate registered in the first quarter of 1913
10. See Harry's marriage certificate to Laura registered in the last quarter of 1913
11. Thanks to my mum for the information!
12. See James marriage certificate to Minnie registered in the third quarter of 1924
13. Thanks to my mum for the information!
14. See James Jr.'s death certificate registered in the last quarter of 1958
15. See Minnie's death register registered in the last quarter of 1976


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